Heat the oven: Set to 425°F (220°C). Grease a 9x13-inch baking dish.
Roast the cauliflower: Toss florets with olive oil, half the salt, and half the pepper.
Spread on a sheet pan and roast for 18–22 minutes, flipping once, until tender with browned edges. Reduce oven to 375°F (190°C).
Make the sauce base: In a large skillet over medium heat, melt butter. Add onion and a pinch of salt.
Cook 4–5 minutes until soft and translucent. Stir in garlic and cook 30 seconds.
Build the roux: Sprinkle in flour and cook, stirring, for 1 minute. Slowly whisk in chicken broth, then milk.
Keep whisking until smooth and slightly thickened, 3–4 minutes.
Season and add cheese: Stir in Dijon, paprika, thyme, remaining salt and pepper, and red pepper flakes if using. Reduce heat to low. Add 1 1/2 cups cheddar and 1/4 cup Parmesan, stirring until melted and smooth.
Remove from heat. Stir in Greek yogurt or sour cream for extra creaminess.
Combine: In a large bowl, mix roasted cauliflower and chicken. Pour the cheese sauce over and fold to coat evenly.
Assemble the casserole: Transfer mixture to the prepared baking dish.
Top with remaining 1/2 cup cheddar and 1/4 cup Parmesan. If you like a crunchy top, sprinkle panko over the cheese.
Bake: Bake at 375°F for 18–22 minutes, until bubbling around the edges and golden on top. If you want deeper color, broil for 1–2 minutes at the end—watch closely.
Rest and serve: Let it sit for 5–10 minutes to set.
Garnish with parsley. Taste and adjust seasoning if needed.